
EMOTIONAL PANIC CAN CREATE PROBLEMS WITH
HOME SCREENING AND PLACEMENT
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In recent years, thanks mostly
to the Internet, rescue has grown into a large army of loosely connected
volunteers across the country, volunteers of widely different backgrounds
and philosophy. The sheer number of volunteers and the speed with
which they communicate today makes rescue more effective than ever
and a powerful force in reducing shelter deaths but this diversity
has also created some problems.
In the past, rescue was conducted primarily
by responsible hobby breeders. With a working knowledge of dogs gained
by hands-on experience from whelping to grave, they know what behavior
is normal for their breeds, what sort of people are best suited to
own them, and how to match those people with individual dogs to make
lifetime relationships that work. They apply the knowledge and objectivity
gained through their breeding experience to rescue.
Many of today's newer rescuers don't have this
background, though. They're pet owners who may have had dogs for years
but haven't been involved in the dog world on a deeper level. They
have big hearts, good intentions and a lot of energy but they often
have quite a different perspective on how rescue should be done. They're
easily led by their emotions and are especially susceptible to the
daily barrage of appeals from the Internet of "sweet dog to die
tomorrow!" "last day for this dog!" "please help
now or this dog will die!"
Emotion plays a large part in rescue work (none
of us would be involved if these dogs didn't tug on our heart strings)
but emotion as the driving force in a placement program can have significant
drawbacks. The bombardment of appeals never lets up and keeps many
rescuers in a constant state of emergency, rushing to retrieve dogs
and rushing to place them, in a frantic effort to keep pace. This
emotional panic can lead to premature burn out and to unfortunate
compromises in the selection of dogs, the quality of foster care,
and the choice of permanent homes.
Experienced rescuers rank a dog's overall adoption
potential as the most important factor when selecting which dogs they
can save out of thousands in need. New rescuers are influenced more
by the plight of the dog, putting priority on the immediate need to
save its life rather than its suitability for future placement. Those
in the worst shape or most danger of death are chosen first. By using
that criteria, many rescuers become overloaded with dogs that are
quite difficult medically and behaviorally.
A few rescue organizations specialize in the
hard-to-adopt and can do a good job with them, but average volunteers
often discover they've taken on more than they can handle. This difficulty
and the urgency to save more dogs on death row can lead them to make
hasty, poorly considered placements as they become desperate for homes.
Home Screening
The physical aspects of home screening
have improved a great deal thanks to the Internet as more
rescuers work together to do home visits for each other,
but frankly, the mental aspects have not. For example, an
adopter may have the means and facilities to care for a
dog, but are they really suited to own this breed and this
particular dog? If there are medical or behavioral problems,
will they be able to handle them? In the hurry to get dogs
placed quickly in order to save others, those questions
aren't always answered until after the placement is made.
As one volunteer told me, "we
get the dog in a home first and work the bugs out later."
This philosophy will produce some successful adoptions through
the luck of the draw but it runs a much higher risk of failure
than placements that are well-planned and requires a substantially
greater investment of the rescuer's time in post-adoption
counseling.
For a placement to be successful,
a deep bond between dog and adopter needs to develop quickly.
This bond must be strong enough to carry the person through
after the thrill wears off and encourage them to overcome
problems as they arise. The creation of the bond is a complicated
thing and it begins with the meeting of expectations. The
adopter has a vision of what his new companion will be like
and he expects the dog to fit into it. If the dog doesn't
meet these expectations, the resulting disappointment will
prevent formation of the bond. If the dog hasn't been carefully
matched to the family during the pre-adoption process, the
chances increase that dog won't meet their expectations
and the bond will not develop properly. Without it, the
dog is more likely to be returned especially when unanticipated
problems appear.
Placement Mistakes
The most common placement mistakes
I see are (1) not keeping dogs in foster care long enough
to properly evaluate them and treat their medical problems
before adoption; and (2) placing dogs with owners not suited
for them or not equipped to deal with their medical or behavioral
concerns. To accurately match dogs with adopters, you need
to do two things: you must get to know the dog well and
you must find out what the adopter wants in a dog.
Getting to know the dog involves keeping
it in foster care long enough to get to know it! I'm amazed
how many dogs are placed in adoptive homes within a day
or two of being retrieved from the shelters, barely long
enough to get them spayed or neutered, much less find out
what they're like. Almost every dog is on its best behavior
during its first two weeks in a new situation. It doesn't
know what to expect or what the rules are so it does its
best to stay out of trouble while it figures everything
out. Many negative behaviors don't appear until this honeymoon
period is over and the dog is more settled. Placing the
dog before you really know what you have can set up the
adopter for some unpleasant surprises.
Without getting to know the dog, it's
impossible to match it correctly with a new owner. You need
to find out as much as you can about the dog's personality,
activity level, ability to learn and how it will behave
in the common situations it will encounter as a family pet.
These aspects can't be fully discovered in a couple days'
time or within a rudimentary "temperament test"
given at the shelter. You must live with the dog for a few
weeks to know what you're trying to place. Once you know
the dog, you can create a profile of the type of owner you
think is best suited for it.
Interviews
Finding out what a prospective adopter
wants in a dog isn't as hard as it might sound. It involves
asking some well-aimed questions and listening carefully
to the answers. During interviews, rescuers often talk more
than they listen but listening is what brings out what you
need to know.
When I'm interviewing an adopter,
I want to know what their previous dog was like because
that's usually the dog their current perception is based
on. Was it quiet, noisy, active, mellow, good with children,
etc.? What did they like most about the dog and what would
they have changed if they could? What kinds of activities
did they do with the dog? What do they hope to do with this
one? Most of the time, you don't actually have to ask all
these questions directly. Just ask them to tell you something
about their last dogs (or the one they have now) and encourage
them through the conversation. Most people will talk about
their past pets indefinitely if you show you're interested
and all of this information is extremely useful to you.
It tells you what priority their pets have in their lives,
how they're cared for, what behavior they're used to, and
what they expect from their new dog.
Most of this information can't be
gained through an adoption application. In my opinion, applications
are meant to determine basic physical facts: who the person
is, where they live, who else is in the household, get references,
etc., facts that will help you do some preliminary screening.
The application can tell you who might have the physical
means to care for a dog but it will be your personal conversations
with the prospective adopter that tell you whether that
person will fit well, physically and emotionally, with the
dog you have available.
Be honest about the dog and honest
with the adopter. Many people can live happily with an imperfect
dog but they need to know what the imperfections are so
they can make an informed decision. Some beleaguered rescuers
leave out important information for fear it will discourage
the adoption. It's far better to be upfront and possibly
lose the adopter now than to have them find out later that
you didn't tell him everything they needed to know. Not
only are they likely to return the dog, they'll feel that
you deliberately misled them. Worse, they may be leery to
try again with another rescue, turning instead to a purchased
puppy that they believe they can mold into what they're
looking for.
Don't force square pegs into round
holes. No match is going to be a perfect fit but it should
be close. If the dog will not work for this family, be willing
to wait for another. If the dog has a problem that makes
it a bad fit for most families, work to fix the problem
before putting the dog up for adoption.
Experienced volunteers know that rescue
is about more than saving lives. That's just the easiest
part. The most important aspect of rescue is putting that
dog into the right home where it will be loved and cared
for for the rest of its life. That's the hardest part and
the most satisfying. There are no shortcuts to making a
good match but the results are well worth the effort.
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Please understand that the dogs we take in are prioritized. Dogs coming from a shelter, where they are in danger of being put to sleep, and unclaimed strays are given first and top priority. Next, we look at dogs who are in need of immediate health care that their owners cannot provide. We then consider other dogs. For an owner release, we often ask that people foster their dogs while we look for a permanent home for them.
If you are unable to care for your dog any longer and if we do not have an available foster home, we hope that you will contribute to the cost of boarding them. Sometimes this is not possible, and we will still take the dog; but since we are funded by donations and since the cost of rescue outweighs the contributions, we hope that you can help us out while we help you out by finding a great home for your dog.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Donna Farmer
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